How does a people come to terms with such a past?

Yet we still haven't come to terms with the problem.

Yes, you might say I came to terms with him.

The son was still coming to terms with the idea.

After three weeks, she finally comes to terms with what has happened.

The community needed to come to terms with the problem.

Now they and their 4 children are trying to come to terms with what's happened.

However, I am not trying here to come to terms with the past.

I want to come to terms with my drug problem.

They've been trying to come to terms with what's happened ever since.